The grim logic of factions
Care moms, I left to spend a few days by the puzzling episode of Messina (two gynecologists will peak during the confinement of a woman) because I wanted to reflect deeply on what happened. Well, if I said that I would never have expected, I would be lying.
There is something deeply insane, in my opinion, that unfortunately permeates many aspects related to motherhood since giving birth to weaning. I'm talking about the grid into factions, which returns for each theme that we as parents and parents-we face. Nursery or not, breast feeding until - in public or in the back, pannollini normal or washable, and before that, of course, on how to give birth: in water, earth, sky, one transaction, with the 'epidural or not. All issues are certainly important and I personally think is good deal in a conscious way, asking and listening, the other but also themselves. But here, you never can find the measure, common sense, in items from which we are most often crushed.
There are sides and you always need to choose: either here or there, there is no compromise because the compromise weakened the ideology and then slows down due to pressures from factions that want to support. At your expense. So yes, the episode of Messina does not surprise me that much, because in a country that for some time even in the highest positions have forgotten the ethics of dialogue, it is unrealistic to hope that bad practices do not spread like wildfire a bit 'everywhere, even in a delivery room. It seems that everything we build, we know only at the expense of those who do not share our cause, demonizing those who think like us, in complete inability to listen to and respect another. Definitely a bad habit, but - I fear - to feed ourselves. Yes, because any decision we take as parents, we feel compelled to argue and defend, to protect ourselves from the opinions of others, and here so we fall back, feeding it, in the sad logic of factions.
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